May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself. - Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Tuesday, January 21, 2025
Something to Ponder...
There are trivial truths and there are great truths.
The opposite of a trivial truth is plainly false.
The opposite of a great truth is also true.
- Niels Bohr
Niels Bohr, the great Danish physicist who received the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1922 for his fundamental contributions to the understanding of atomic structure and quantum mechanics, is making a point that is very Zen - or very Taoist if one prefers.
An example of a "great truth" for which the opposite is also true is the statement, "You are not your body; you are not your mind." While it is very true, if one so believes, that the "real you" is neither physical nor mental, it is simultaneously true that your body and your mind are very real, and ignoring their reality is likely to cause great suffering.
Another example of a "great truth" is the Golden Rule. It is true that we should treat others as we wish to be treated in the sense of being kind and compassionate to everyone. Yet the opposite of the Golden Rule is also true in the sense that it is kind and compassionate to recognize that everyone is called to a different life path and to honor those differences.
[As always, the purpose of these daily messages to provide something to think about, rather than to attempt to dictate conclusions.]
No statement should be believed [solely] because it is made by an authority.
- Robert A. Heinlein
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
The more opinions you have, the less you see.
- Wim Wenders
The words of truth are always paradoxical.
- Lao Tzu
Further reading: What is "The Truth?"
To Keep the Golden Rule
What You're Sure You Know, But Don't
The Golden Rule is Not Always Golden
Sunday, August 18, 2024
Life plays out in shades of gray rather than in blacks and whites
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Life plays out in shades of gray rather than in blacks and whites.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Monday, August 12, 2024
Life is Complex and Filled with Contradictions
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You didn't get stamped out of a mold. You aren't a "black person" or a "white person," a "fat person" or a "skinny person," a "bad person" or a "good person." You are a highly complex human being with emotions, beliefs, capabilities. Each day you face challenges to your health, relationships, finances, and world-view -- and every day you respond to those challenges in ways which are unique to you.
Honor and love all of your unique self. Never diminish yourself with self-applied labels or categorizations.
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize
how little we understand about life,
ourselves, and the world around us.
- Socrates
For every complex problem,
there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
- H. L. Mencken
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma,
a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own
mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco
Further reading: All Life is Paradox
Lessons from Life
Stand Rapt in Awe
Saturday, June 15, 2024
Be Cheerful in Defeat
It's one of life's great paradoxes ...
Accepting with gratitude whatever life throws at us
is critical to happiness.
Yet without a goal and commitment, life loses much of its value.
The best we can do in the face of this paradox
is to play to win, but be cheerful in defeat
and ready to play again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The greatest test of courage on earth
is to bear defeat without losing heart.
- Robert Ingersoll
Remember you will not always win.
Some days, the most resourceful individual will taste defeat.
But there is, in this case, always tomorrow -
after you have done your best to achieve success today.
- Maxwell Maltz
Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest (Serenity Prayer)
Make Lemonade
What is Defeat?
Sunday, January 21, 2024
The words of truth are always paradoxical
There are trivial truths and there are great truths.
The opposite of a trivial truth is plainly false.
The opposite of a great truth is also true.
- Niels Bohr
Niels Bohr, the great Danish physicist who received the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1922 for his fundamental contributions to the understanding of atomic structure and quantum mechanics, is making a point that is very Zen - or very Taoist if one prefers.
An example of a "great truth" for which the opposite is also true is the statement, "You are not your body; you are not your mind." While it is very true, if one so believes, that the "real you" is neither physical nor mental, it is simultaneously true that your body and your mind are very real, and ignoring their reality is likely to cause great suffering.
Another example of a "great truth" is the Golden Rule. It is true that we should treat others as we wish to be treated in the sense of being kind and compassionate to everyone. Yet the opposite of the Golden Rule is also true in the sense that it is kind and compassionate to recognize that everyone is called to a different life path and to honor those differences.
[As always, the purpose of these daily messages to provide something to think about, rather than to attempt to dictate conclusions.]
No statement should be believed because it is made by an authority.
- Robert A. Heinlein
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
The more opinions you have, the less you see.
- Wim Wenders
The words of truth are always paradoxical.
- Lao Tzu
Further reading: What is "The Truth?"
To Keep the Golden Rule
What You're Sure You Know, But Don't
The Golden Rule is Not Always Golden
Friday, August 18, 2023
Life is Filled with Shades of Gray and Contradictions
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Saturday, August 12, 2023
Willingly Accept the Complexity and the Contradictions of Life
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You didn't get stamped out of a mold. You aren't a "black person" or a "white person," a "fat person" or a "skinny person," a "bad person" or a "good person." You are a highly complex human being with emotions, beliefs, capabilities. Each day you face challenges to your health, relationships, finances, and world-view -- and every day you respond to those challenges in ways which are unique to you.
Honor and love all of your unique self. Never diminish yourself with self-applied labels or categorizations.
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize
how little we understand about life,
ourselves, and the world around us.
- Socrates
For every complex problem,
there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
- H. L. Mencken
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma,
a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own
mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco
Further reading: All Life is Paradox
Lessons from Life
Stand Rapt in Awe
Saturday, June 17, 2023
Bear Defeat Without Losing Heart
It's one of life's great paradoxes ...
Accepting with gratitude whatever life throws at us
is critical to happiness.
Yet without a goal and commitment, life loses much of its value.
The best we can do in the face of this paradox
is to play to win, but be cheerful in defeat
and ready to play again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The greatest test of courage on earth
is to bear defeat without losing heart.
- Robert Ingersoll
Remember you will not always win.
Some days, the most resourceful individual will taste defeat.
But there is, in this case, always tomorrow -
after you have done your best to achieve success today.
- Maxwell Maltz
Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest (Serenity Prayer)
Make Lemonade
What is Defeat?
Wednesday, January 18, 2023
The Paradox of Truth
There are trivial truths and there are great truths.
The opposite of a trivial truth is plainly false.
The opposite of a great truth is also true.
- Niels Bohr
Niels Bohr, the great Danish physicist who received the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1922 for his fundamental contributions to the understanding of atomic structure and quantum mechanics, is making a point that is very Zen - or very Taoist if one prefers.
An example of a "great truth" for which the opposite is also true is the statement, "You are not your body; you are not your mind." While it is very true, if one so believes, that the "real you" is neither physical nor mental, it is simultaneously true that your body and your mind are very real, and ignoring their reality is likely to cause great suffering.
Another example of a "great truth" is the Golden Rule. It is true that we should treat others as we wish to be treated in the sense of being kind and compassionate to everyone. Yet the opposite of the Golden Rule is also true in the sense that it is kind and compassionate to recognize that everyone is called to a different life path and to honor those differences.
[As always, the purpose of these daily messages to provide something to think about, rather than to attempt to dictate conclusions.]
No statement should be believed because it is made by an authority.
- Robert A. Heinlein
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
The more opinions you have, the less you see.
- Wim Wenders
The words of truth are always paradoxical.
- Lao Tzu
Further reading: What is "The Truth?"
To Keep the Golden Rule
What You're Sure You Know, But Don't
The Golden Rule is Not Always Golden
Thursday, August 4, 2022
Life is Not Black and White, but Shades of Gray and Contradictions
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Friday, July 29, 2022
Accept that Life is Complex and Contradictory
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You didn't get stamped out of a mold. You aren't a "black person" or a "white person," a "fat person" or a "skinny person," a "bad person" or a "good person." You are a highly complex human being with emotions, beliefs, capabilities. Each day you face challenges to your health, relationships, finances, and world-view -- and every day you respond to those challenges in ways which are unique to you.
Honor and love all of your unique self. Never diminish yourself with self-applied labels or categorizations.
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize
how little we understand about life,
ourselves, and the world around us.
- Socrates
For every complex problem,
there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
- H. L. Mencken
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma,
a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own
mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco
Further reading: All Life is Paradox
Lessons from Life
Stand Rapt in Awe
Thursday, June 2, 2022
Be Cheerful in Defeat, and Ready to Play Again
It's one of life's great paradoxes ...
Accepting with gratitude whatever life throws at us
is critical to happiness.
Yet without a goal and commitment, life loses much of its value.
The best we can do in the face of this paradox
is to play to win, but be cheerful in defeat
and ready to play again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The greatest test of courage on earth
is to bear defeat without losing heart.
- Robert Ingersoll
Remember you will not always win.
Some days, the most resourceful individual will taste defeat.
But there is, in this case, always tomorrow -
after you have done your best to achieve success today.
- Maxwell Maltz
Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest (Serenity Prayer)
Make Lemonade
What is Defeat?
Friday, August 13, 2021
Life is Full of Contradictions
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Saturday, August 7, 2021
Never Diminish Yourself with Self-Applied Labels
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You didn't get stamped out of a mold. You aren't a "black person" or a "white person," a "fat person" or a "skinny person," a "bad person" or a "good person." You are a highly complex human being with emotions, beliefs, capabilities. Each day you face challenges to your health, relationships, finances, and world-view -- and every day you respond to those challenges in ways which are unique to you.
Honor and love all of your unique self. Never diminish yourself with self-applied labels or categorizations.
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize
how little we understand about life,
ourselves, and the world around us.
- Socrates
For every complex problem,
there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
- H. L. Mencken
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma,
a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own
mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco
Further reading: All Life is Paradox
Lessons from Life
Stand Rapt in Awe
Friday, June 11, 2021
Play to Win, but be Cheerful in Defeat
It's one of life's great paradoxes ...
Accepting with gratitude whatever life throws at us
is critical to happiness.
Yet without a goal and commitment, life loses much of its value.
The best we can do in the face of this paradox
is to play to win, but be cheerful in defeat
and ready to play again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The greatest test of courage on earth
is to bear defeat without losing heart.
- Robert Ingersoll
Remember you will not always win.
Some days, the most resourceful individual will taste defeat.
But there is, in this case, always tomorrow -
after you have done your best to achieve success today.
- Maxwell Maltz
Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest (Serenity Prayer)
Make Lemonade
What is Defeat?
Monday, August 17, 2020
It's OK that Life is Not Simple
Prepare for the unknown by studying how others in the past
have coped with the unforeseeable and the unpredictable.
- George S. Patton
Life only appears complicated when one is worrying.
Relax, and life becomes simple again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The contradictions are what make human behavior
so maddening and yet so fascinating,
all at the same time.
- Joan D. Vinge
The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am,
then I can change.
- Carl Rogers
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I think wholeness is God's design for us;
and that often amounts to embracing contradictions.
- Bono
Further reading: Overflowing Cup of Tea - Zen Koan
Maybe So, Maybe Not. - Ancient Taoist Proverb
Yin-Yang
Balance in All Things
Tuesday, August 11, 2020
Complexities and Contradictions
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You didn't get stamped out of a mold. You aren't a "black person" or a "white person," a "fat person" or a "skinny person," a "bad person" or a "good person." You are a highly complex human being with emotions, beliefs, capabilities. Each day you face challenges to your health, relationships, finances, and world-view -- and every day you respond to those challenges in ways which are unique to you.
Honor and love all of your unique self. Never diminish yourself with self-applied labels or categorizations.
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize
how little we understand about life,
ourselves, and the world around us.
- Socrates
For every complex problem,
there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
- H. L. Mencken
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma,
a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own
mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco
Further reading: All Life is Paradox
Lessons from Life
Stand Rapt in Awe
Tuesday, June 9, 2020
Cheerful in Defeat and Ready to Play Again
It's one of life's great paradoxes ...
Accepting with gratitude whatever life throws at us
is critical to happiness.
Yet without a goal and commitment, life loses much of its value.
The best we can do in the face of this paradox
is to play to win, but be cheerful in defeat
and ready to play again.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
The greatest test of courage on earth
is to bear defeat without losing heart.
- Robert Ingersoll
Remember you will not always win.
Some days, the most resourceful individual will taste defeat.
But there is, in this case, always tomorrow -
after you have done your best to achieve success today.
- Maxwell Maltz
Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.
- Martin Luther King, Jr.
Further reading: Do What You Can; Trust God With The Rest (Serenity Prayer)
Make Lemonade
What is Defeat?
Saturday, April 4, 2020
The Paradox of Great Truths
There are trivial truths and there are great truths.
The opposite of a trivial truth is plainly false.
The opposite of a great truth is also true.
- Niels Bohr
Niels Bohr, the great Danish physicist who received the Nobel Prize in Physics in 1922 for his fundamental contributions to the understanding of atomic structure and quantum mechanics, is making a point that is very Zen - or very Taoist if one prefers.
An example of a "great truth" for which the opposite is also true is the statement, "You are not your body; you are not your mind." While it is very true, if one so believes, that the "real you" is neither physical nor mental, it is simultaneously true that your body and your mind are very real, and ignoring their reality is likely to cause great suffering.
Another example of a "great truth" is the Golden Rule. It is true that we should treat others as we wish to be treated in the sense of being kind and compassionate to everyone. Yet the opposite of the Golden Rule is also true in the sense that it is kind and compassionate to recognize that everyone is called to a different life path and to honor those differences.
[As always, the purpose of these daily messages to provide something to think about, rather than to attempt to dictate conclusions.]
No statement should be believed because it is made by an authority.
- Robert A. Heinlein
Prejudice is a burden that confuses the past,
threatens the future and renders the present inaccessible.
- Maya Angelou
The more opinions you have, the less you see.
- Wim Wenders
The words of truth are always paradoxical.
- Lao Tzu
Further reading: What is "The Truth?"
To Keep the Golden Rule
What You're Sure You Know, But Don't
The Golden Rule is Not Always Golden
Wednesday, July 17, 2019
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life
True wisdom comes to each of us when we realize
how little we understand about life,
ourselves, and the world around us.
- Socrates
Actions are always more complex and nuanced than they seem.
We have to be willing to wrestle with paradox in pursuing understanding.
- Harold Evans
I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma,
a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own
mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
- Umberto Eco
For every complex problem,
there is a solution that is simple, neat, and wrong.
- H. L. Mencken
Willingly accept the complexity and the contradictions of life.
- Jonathan Lockwood Huie
You didn't get stamped out of a mold. You aren't a "black person" or a "white person," a "fat person" or a "skinny person," a "bad person" or a "good person." You are a highly complex human being with emotions, beliefs, capabilities. Each day you face challenges to your health, relationships, finances, and world-view -- and every day you respond to those challenges in ways which are unique to you.
Honor and love all of your unique self. Never diminish yourself with self-applied labels or categorizations.
Further reading: Lessons from Life
Paradox
Stand Rapt in Awe



